You have met an interesting woman online. You two
had a great time chatting online and she decided
to give you her phone number. Now you have to
make her want to see you face to face, and the
phone is your only tool.

The first telephone call is the most important
one. Sure you have her number, but nothing has
been won yet.

  1. Before you call you should have prepared a
    list of several topics to talk about. Hopefully
    your email exchange has provided you with some
    information to follow up on. Study her profile to
    think of other topics to talk about. Prepare open
    ended questions. Start talking about a subject,
    and give her a chance to speak as well.
  2. DON’T: ask her questions about other guys she’
    s seeing, suspiciously interrogate her about how
    she spends her time, and angrily reprimand her
    for flaking on you. How she spends her time is
    her business.

A lot of men sabotage their chances with a woman
by don’t giving her enough credit and respect.

You know there’s trouble if you’re doing all the
talking and her replies are short or non-existent.
If so it either means you haven’t hit on the
right topic to talk about, or, more likely, she
simply isn’t interested. Also, if she ends the
conversation early or “has to go”, leave it up to
her to call you again, if she wants to. Usually,
she won’t.

So, when talking to a woman on the phone DON’T
worry about impressing her. Have fun. Enjoy the
conversation. Amuse yourself.

  1. At first phone conversation is better to stay
    away of complimenting her. I think giving women
    compliments can be very powerful. But when you
    give a woman compliments within the context of
    trying to win her over, you become a wuss.

Usually women are curious why the men they are
talking to online decided to pick them instead of
other thousandths of profiles. Most of them will
ask you about these “reasons” and by doing this
are giving you the opportunity to make her
compliments. So, wait the moment. 🙂

If the conversation flow easily, effortlessly, if
you find her fairly responsive and you can keep
up the conversation for at least a half hour you
can ask her out. Her answer seam to be: “YES”.

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